How to Get Your Man to Wear the Pants

get your man to wear the pants

Ladies, are you wondering how to get your man to wear the pants so you don’t have to? Listen to this episode to find out!

Elliott Katz is a relationship coach and author of “Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants: Timeless wisdom on being a man” which has been translated into 24 languages, and “How to Get Your Man to Wear the Pants … So You Don’t Have To : Inspiring him to take the lead, make more decisions and STOP LEAVING IT ALL TO YOU!” 

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • Why Elliott wrote a book about how a woman can get a man to wear the pants
  • Why don’t men know they should be doing more 
  • When a man asks a woman out and doesn’t have a plan to suggest for the date — what should the woman do?
  • What should a woman do when she asks a man for his input on a decision and he says, “Whatever you want, you decide”?
  • What should a woman do if a man won’t help plan a vacation?

EP 550: Elliot Katz – How to Get Your Man to Wear the Pants…So You Don’t Have To

What led you to write a book about how a woman can get a man to wear the pants?

A lot of women asked how to get their man to take charge. They were tired of having been be passive and wanted men to make decisions.

Why don’t men know they should be taking charge more in relationships?

One reason is most men don’t care about taking the lead. But women don’t want to be the ‘mom’ in the relationship. Men have heard so much about being toxic or controlling, they want to do it her way and make her happy. But the women feel special when a man steps forward.

When a man asks a woman out and doesn’t have a plan to suggest for the date — what should the woman do?

Men: be a man with a plan. Think about what you both want to do. A woman might think if you can’t even decide what to do on a first date, how will you be in a relationship? Be proactive and plan.

Women: You can say “I’m sure you can come up with some ideas. That would make me happy!” That way he doesn’t feel criticized or attacked for not planning the date.

What should a woman do when she asks a man for his input on a decision and he says, “Whatever you want, you decide”?

Men and women speak different languages. If a woman tells a man what to do around the home, it can feel like he’s being a mother’s helper. What she really wants is for him to take the lead. 

A woman can say “What I want is for you to help me make a decision”. Use the words, “It would make me happy if ____________.” Show appreciation for what he does. Don’t criticize him.

Don’t expect a man to read your mind. Communicate to him clearly!

What should a woman do if a man won’t help plan a vacation?

Say, “It would make me happy if we could plan this together.”

What are your final words of advice for anyone who wants to go on their last first date?

Let him choose the place, and if doesn’t have ideas, help him know what makes you happy. A lot of men haven’t learned what you want and what makes you happy. It’s up to you to teach him. If he’s a decent guy, he’ll be receptive, and if not, you’ll know early on so you can move on.

Watch this episode on YouTube

Connect with Elliott: www.ElliottKatz.com  or Twitter: @Elliott_Katz

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