5 Mistakes People Make When Dating Casually (And What to Do Instead)
If you’re dating casually because you’re not ready for a relationship, that’s okay. But be careful not to make these 5 mistakes. Casual dating gets a bad reputation in the over 50 crowd. Some of my clients tell me they feel guilty even using the word casual, like it means they aren’t serious about finding love. But here’s the truth: dating casually, when you do it well, is one of the healthiest ways to find your person. It takes the pressure off. It lets you actually get to know someone instead of rushing to decide if they’re “the one” by date two. The problem isn’t casual dating itself. It’s the mistakes people make while they’re doing it. I see the same five patterns over and over in my coaching practice, so let’s talk through them. Mistake #1: Skipping the safety conversation When dating feels light and low stakes, it’s easy to let your guard down in ways that aren...