Getting Clear About What You Want in Dating

what you want in dating

Without clarity, how do you know what you want in dating? In this episode, learn how to clarify your dating wants and needs.

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What if you could get clear about what you want in dating? My podcast guest, Tracey Gee, is the author of The Magic of Knowing What You Want. She’s a certified leadership coach and consultant and a sought-after speaker and facilitator nationwide. She helps people learn more about themselves and their unique sense of meaning and purpose. She feels honored to have worked with a breadth of incredible individuals and organizations, including UC Berkeley, the Miami Heat, and Coca-Cola, but her great ambition in life remains to pet as many dogs as possible.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

  • How to discover what you want in dating
  • A practical exercise on uncovering your authentic desires in dating
  • After you have clarity about what you want, what actions to take

EP 647: Tracey Gee – Getting Clear About What You Want in Dating

What inspired you to write a book on helping others discover what they really want?

I’m trained as a leadership coach and consultant, and the tools I was trained in are wonderful for building self-awareness, but they didn’t cover the next step, which is what you really want. People were confused or ashamed or scared that they didn’t know the answer to that question. Women often struggle with this, as they are always tuned into what other people want.

What are some steps to help you uncover what you want in dating?

  1. Give yourself permission to want what you want. Don’t judge yourself. If you’re a ‘good girl’, you’re not selfish, you focus on others. Don’t wait for permission to be given.
  2. Notice the types of questions that come up when you ask yourself what you want. We can stay in a ‘desire fog’ because we don’t make space to have what we want.
  3. Create room to explore. Try things out. 

What is one practical exercise we can use today to help uncover our authentic desires when it comes to dating?

Look back on your life and experiences for how you’re uniquely wired. What worked, and what didn’t work? This will help you understand what you want and need to find the right fit for you. Calibrate to your own inner compass.

When people have clarity in dating, what actions can they take that will lead to what they truly desire?

Do an ‘experiment map’. Explore what dating could look like by meeting people in different ways. Map it out like a mind map. It’s a clear and flexible way to meet someone. Map potential paths, and what you’d need to do to execute that plan. What feels most exciting? Try it!

What are your final words of advice for anyone who wants to go on their last first date?

Ask yourself “How do I want dating to feel when I’m dating?” Be an explorer. Be lighter and more playful. Find your unique joyful way to date.

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