5 “Forgotten” Sex Tips For More Pleasure, Harder Erections & Powerful Orgasms (From A Tantric Expert & Mindfulness Coach)
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This is another episode of Ask Ruwando.
I'm Ruwando on behalf of Gotham club.
And in this video I'm going to share with you five fundamental sex tips that every guy needs to know.
Because in today's day & age, there's more information about sex and pleasure online than there ever has been before in history.
Unfortunately, this includes lots of MISinformtation as well.
And with the continued existence of the “orgasm gap”–research shows 95% of heterosexual men say they “usually” or “always” orgasm during sex, versus just 65% of women–it's important to be able to separate the facts from the bulls*it.
So today I'm going to show you 5 PROVEN techniques that will help you last longer, get harder, and give your woman more pleasure than she's ever experienced…
They're simpler than you may think, and easy to implement–though they make a HUGE difference in your performance:
Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…
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1) Breathe (It’s WAY More Important Than You Think)
I'm sure you've heard this tip before.
But a lot of guys don't do it.
I think maybe because it's so simple.
When you're not breathing well–when you get tense, when you get nervous and your breathing starts to get shallow–you're actually encouraging your fight or flight response.
And if you're in that mode, you're not going to be good at making love. You're probably not gonna last long, you might have erection issues, and you might not be present.
So something as simple as breathing and being relaxed, just like you're meditating, will encourage you to be in a parasympathetic state.
And this will allow you to last longer, be more in your body, and pay better attention to the woman.
Which brings me to my next tip…
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2) Pay Attention
The second tip I just mentioned, is to pay attention.
Women especially can tell if you're paying attention. They can actually feel it in their bodies.
That's why like, a woman can get uncomfortable if a guy's staring at her or eyeing her up and down–she can actually feel it in her body.
Same thing if you're with a girlfriend or something, she can tell if you're actually paying attention or not.
Because when you're paying attention, she can actually feel your presence and it feels good, especially in the bedroom.
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If you're thinking about something else, even if you're doing a perfect technique, and you're not paying attention… she's not going to get as much feeling and she's not going to feel like you're there as much.
The second thing is that in paying attention, you actually get the best sensory feedback from her body.
A lot of guys ask me what the “best” technique is for this or for that… and I tell them all the same thing:
If you're really paying attention to the woman's body, you don't have to worry so much about what you should do next. Your body will actually tell you what to do, but you have to pay attention.
And even if you think of the best techniques out there, like the best moves… they always came from being in the moment and paying attention.
These techniques were all created by some guy out there, when he did something that works. He paid attention.
You want to be able to be in this mindset that so that you can create better and better moves and actually do what's called for in the given moment.
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3) The “Obvious” Thing That 99% of Guys Forget To Do
This third thing also seems maybe obvious, but so many guys don't do this. So many women don't think to do this.
And that is to communicate.
I think a lot of guys, when they're looking for sex tips, they want to be a good performer in the bedroom.
They think they need to figure everything out about her before even sleeping with her for the first time. That's ridiculous.
You have to do that for anything else.
If you're trying to play sports, or learn a skill, you communicate. You get information from other resources.
So with a woman, you have to ask questions like:
“Hey, what did you like? What didn't you like? Is there anything you're into?”
Because she'll tell you exactly what's going to work, so why wouldn't you get that information?
Don't be that guy who thinks he needs to figure everything out on his own. I mean, you can get the information right from the person.
So much of the best education for men on how to make love to women comes from other women. Like your past partners, even if you do something wrong, she'll tell you what is going to be good for the next partner.
So I mean, communication is the most important thing–especially in a long-term relationship.
Even a fu**k buddy. You know, if you're sleeping together multiple times, you should be speaking about it in between so that you have better experiences every time.
I know, it seems maybe obvious. I mean, it should be obvious, but so few people actually communicate about sex.
Now, the fourth tip is super important, I'd say especially in the post “#MeToo” era that we're in right now.
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4) Trust Yourself
And that is to trust yourself.
So many guys are don't want to do something that offends a woman or violates a woman. They want to be good guys.
Most guys want to be good guys. However, I'm hearing a lot of guys are now tentative about what to do in the bedroom.
They think things like, “Oh, should I touch there?”
It may be asking for permission too much, or they're hesitant. And it's frustrating.
Every woman I meet–my female friends, my other partners–they're like, “why are guys so tentative?”
And I try to explain to them it's because you know, we want to make sure we're not violating.
But this is something you have to remember–the best shot you have at doing the thing that's going to bring the most pleasure for both of you HAS to feel good for your body.
If you're in your head, just trying to figure out what she's going to like and not like will be extremely difficult. That's true even if you have the best intention.
So like, the thing you have to remember is, if you're going into it with good intentions–you don't want to violate a woman and you want to have a good time–it's okay to be a little more selfish.
It's okay to be aware of what your desire is.
Because if you're doing everything for her, she's going to feel a lot of pressure on her.
And she's not going to feel like she's having sex with someone… she's going to feel like she's with this guy who's trying to service her.
And that's not sexy.
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5) The Mind Hack I Teach Guys For MAX Arousal Control…
The fifth thing is kind of a mind hack that I share when I teach about arousal control. And it is to pay attention to your hands and feet.
This might seem a little silly or like a little weird… like what are you talking about?
But just follow me here.
So a lot of guys, when they're having sex and having intercourse, they're just focused on their genitals.
Especially guys who come too soon, it's like the pressure builds up in their genitals too soon, and they're not paying attention to the rest of their body.
You have to remember you have sex with your whole body.
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So instead of like theorizing about it, the trick that I tell guys to do is to pay attention to your hands and feet.
Because when you pay attention to your hands and feet, it forces you to be aware of your entire body.
The sensation is no longer trapped in this one spot, you're actually now aware of your whole body.
And there's another psychological element to this too. When you're paying attention to your hands and feet, it kind of puts you in a more animalistic mode, as opposed to being in your head.
So that's one of my key physical hacks for arousal control.
It's a very simple thing that helps you last longer, because now your sensation is not getting trapped in your genitals. It's spread throughout your whole body.
And here's my other key physical hack for not just arousal control, but achieving MAX hardness always:
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Many guys don’t realize this… but just about every guy I’ve ever talked with has had issues “performing”… (including myself).
It’s normal. It happens for a variety of reasons… and it’s NOT your fault.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve gone softer than a marshmallow, during sex.
Once I was in bed with my ex… and after 30 minutes of kissing and feeling each other up, I still couldn’t get it up…
So she did what a lot of nice young ladies would do and started using her mouth to help the situation.
She enthusiastically blew me like a leaf blower for 15 minutes until I was rock hard… only for me to go soft seconds after sticking it in…
… and that’s when she let out a sigh of disappointment that still haunts me to this day.
The most frustrating part was, I couldn’t put my finger on WHY this was happening…
I was young, so it couldn’t have been an age problem…
… plus I worked out regularly and ate healthy… so there should have been no reason why I was going soft all the time.
But then I discovered something that works REALLY well for hardness…
And after doing this a few times, over the course of 3-4 weeks… I found that this helped me:
- Get hard basically “on-command”…
- Stay rock solid for longer periods of time… (WAY longer than my two-pump chump days)…
- And this might be TMI… but I found this technique even gave me more pleasurable and larger ejaculations!
So here’s what DOES actually work best to boost your boners… without having to make that embarrassing trip to the doctor, or get dangerous prescriptions… (I’m all-natural baby, and you should be too!):
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