Are You Dating from Scarcity or Abundance? 5 Ways to Tell Who’s Driving Your Love Life
Are you dating from scarcity or abundance? Here are five ways to tell the difference and know who’s driving your love life. If you’ve been dating for a while, especially in midlife, you’ve probably felt the pull of scarcity thinking. It can sound like “there’s no good people left to date” or “I need to lock this down before he loses interest.” Abundance thinking sounds more expansive and hopeful. When you date from a place of abundance, you believe there’s enough love, enough time, and enough good people out there, so you can slow down and make healthier choices. Here are five places where the difference between scarcity and abundance shows up most clearly in real dating situations. Are You Dating from Scarcity or Abundance? 5 Ways to Tell Who’s Driving Your Love Life 1. How do you respond to a slow text reply? Scarcity: A few hours go by without a text back, and your mind runs straigh...