Seven Words That Can Change Your Life

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Jerry Giordano wrote a book about seven words that can change your life. Find out what they are in this episode of Last First Date Radio!

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Did you know that seven words can change your life? Jerry Giordano is an award-winning advertising copywriter/Creative Director working and living in NYC, Chicago, Los Angeles, Austin and Dallas. He is a co-producer of TEDx events, penned four screenplays, studied comedy at Chicago’s Second City, and performed sketch comedy in NYC and LA. He collects old cameras, photographs manhole covers, is a JFK assassination nut, meditates, and lives in the moment. He’s also the author of Your 7 Words to a Happier You; unlock the story sabotaging your relationships. 

In this episode:

  • What is “Your 7 Words to a Happier You” about?
  • What does “unlock the story sabotaging your relationships” mean?
  • What the discovery of the 7-word sabotaging story done for relationships 
  • What the 7 words have to do with getting into one dysfunctional or narcissistic relationship after another


EP 660: Jerry Giordano – Seven Words That Can Change Your Life

What is your new book, “Your 7 Words to a Happier You” about? 

I didn’t set out to write a book. I had been a hopeful romantic my whole life. In 2017, I was engaged to a woman who I thought was the love of my life. I had two failed marriages before I met her. My mom passed away and twelve days later, I got a breakup email from my fiancè. I was devastated and depressed. It was the lowest point of my life. I couldn’t stop crying – all the pent up feelings were coming out.

I started meditating successfully. That began to transform me. There were three meditations that helped me connect the dots of my life. The seven words came through and helped me through. It helped me turn my life around.

The three meditations were dots that needed to be connected.

One was three year old Jerry crying saying he couldn’t carry this anymore. Adult Jerry walks by and helps him.

I realized three year old me was upset, so I researched inner child and what happens at three. It’s the magic age. They start understanding cause and effect. They live in magic-think, dressing up as characters. Three year-old me was carrying something. What was it? What was he feeling? My mom had a baby when I was three, and I got less attention. I began to feel what he was feeling.

The seven words are a circle: 

The third word is the persona that we carry into the world, the mask. Mine was likable. That’s how I got attention. The sixth word is the sabotage word. I became subordinate to be likable. The seventh word is cycle. I repeated the pattern over and over. 

Please explain the subtitle of the book, “unlock the story sabotaging your relationships”.

The mask we show the world is sabotaging us. For me, it was “subordinate” so I didn’t rock the boat. Some sabotage words are run, rescue, hide, accommodate, shut down, become stoic. 

What has the discovery of your 7-word sabotaging story done for your relationships? 

Once I figured out the patterns of self-sabotage and made the unconscious conscious, I began to heal. I would catch myself falling back into those patterns and pull myself out of it. I was on a date, and I thought it was going well. She finished her drink and walked away without saying a word. The old Jerry would have blamed myself. New Jerry followed her to the valet. She said, “Are you stalking me?” I told the valet what happened and told her she was one of the rudest people I’d ever met. That was huge for me. That turned things around for me. I’m now in a seven year relationship with an incredible woman!

You talk about people getting into one dysfunctional or narcissistic relationship after another. What do your 7 words have to do with that?

Rescue, subordinate, likeable are words that attract narcissists. When you recognize those words and who you are, you can break the pattern and attraction to narcissists.

What are your final words of advice for anyone who wants to go on their last first date?

Figure out who you are first. Then, you put the unconscious story to rest and your dating life will change for the better.

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