Celebrating Those Who Are Happily Single

There are many people who are happily single. We celebrate the single lifestyle in this episode!
—
Dr. Bella DePaulo is the leading expert on single life, and her TEDx talk on the topic now has more than 1.6 million views. She received her PhD from Harvard, spent two decades as a psychology professor at the University of Virginia, and is an academic affiliate at UC Santa Barbara. She is the author of SINGLE AT HEART.
In this episode:
- The definition of “single at heart”
- Why people who are single at heart love being single so much
- Doesn’t everyone want to have a romantic partner?
- The positive benefits of embracing a single life
- Reactions to the Single at Heart book
EP 703: Dr. Bella DePaulo – Celebrating Those Who Are Happily Single
What does “single at heart” mean?
We love our single lives. We are happy and flourishing because we’re single. I dated in the past, and I don’t have any horror stories. And when each relationship ended, I was so happy to get back to my single life.
Why do the single at heart love being single so much?
They love their solitude and freedom and connection with their friends. They have a life they love. They choose the life they want.
Doesn’t everyone want to have a romantic partner?
No, not everyone wants a romantic partner. Some people don’t want to be married, especially not unhappily married. You can have friends with benefits or find other ways to have intimacy.
What are the positives of embracing a single life? Are there statistical or personal benefits?
Your friendships are valued more. You appreciate your solitude. You do what you want without being judged. You won’t be lonely if you like your solitude. It’s a sign of emotional maturity.
What kinds of reactions have you gotten to your Single at Heart book?
In the first couple of weeks after the publish date, I got hundreds of messages and emails and even snail mail. People felt validated. They felt like they found a home.
What are your final words about being single at heart?
Live your single lives fully, joyfully, and unapologetically.
Connect with Bella
- X: @belladepaulo
- Bluesky: @belladepaulo.bsky.social
- IG: @bellasingleatheart
- FB: @singleatheartbook @belladepaulo
- YouTube: @BellaDePaulo
- Website: https://belladepaulo.com/
Watch this episode on YouTube
Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast here.
Apply to get FREE coaching on the podcast: https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching
FREE download: “The Green Light Guide to Dating After 50: How to Show Interest Without Chasing” https://lastfirstdate.com/green-light-guide/
If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to finally find love, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute love breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application
Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate
Get a copy of Sandy’s books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love and Choice Points in Dating; Empowering Women to Make Healthier Decisions in Love and Love at Last: True Stories of Falling in Love Later in Life
from Last First Date https://ift.tt/HiRjK4M
Comments
Post a Comment