It’s Never too Late to Rewrite Your Happily Ever After

It’s never too late to rewrite your happily ever after. Author, Laurie Collister shares her inspiring story on the podcast.
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Laurie Collister is living proof you can rewrite your happily ever after. She is a counselor, journalist, and debut memoirist. After graduating from Kenyon College, she worked as a litigation paralegal, market analyst, investigative journalist, and, most recently, as a counselor on LA’s skid row. In this checkerboard of professions, she learned how to harvest the hidden – key to penning A Different Kind of Vow: Rewriting My Happily After, due out April 7, 2026, as well as The Last Home on the Left, about her fourteen years working on skid row, to be published in May 2027. Laurie lives with her extended family and dog Bella on a cul-de-sac in Los Angeles.
In this episode:
- What is the “other kind of vow”?
- Learning about love in your 30s and 40s
- How journaling can change your life
EP 704: Laurie Collister – Rewriting Your Happily Ever After
Highlights of this episode
A Different Type of Vow and Relationship Insight
- Laurie coined “A Different Type of Vow”: prioritize a personal purpose/sacred vow over seeking marriage as your primary identity.
- Focusing on personal purpose prevents losing oneself in relationships and attracting mismatched partners.
- Warning against the giver-taker dynamic; build relationships with mutual healing and shared goals.
Spiritual Journey and Career Shift
- Laurie pursued a spiritual quest, worked at an international Hindu organization, and learned self-love through meditation.
- Transitioned to counseling (master’s degree) and worked 14 years on Skid Row helping clients find vocation and home.
- Found belonging and purpose in community work rather than in romantic relationships.
Journaling and Self-Discovery
- Uses long-term journaling to gain objectivity, uncover patterns, relieve emotional pressure, and guide life decisions.
- Journaling helped Laurie identify hidden emotions (e.g., rage) and contributed to creative output and healing.
Cultural Critique and Practical Advice
- Argues the “American Dream” script needs rewriting to focus on shared values, growth orientation, and mutual goals rather than a one-size-fits-all checklist.
- Advice for those wanting to be happily single: anchor yourself in your sacred contract/purpose; seek love in multiple forms; avoid entering relationships from scarcity.
Connect with Laurie:
- Website https://lauriecollister.com
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